儿子的生日

今天是儿子的生日,
买了蛋糕为他庆祝,
在庆祝之前给父母训话,
他很不开心, 还哭呢!
大家唱生日歌时,
他一点反应都没有,
一面不开心的样子,
但很快他就没事了.
今年的生日不知道给他留了个怎样的回忆呢?

The Importance of Routine for Children

A true understatement of parenting is saying there is an importance of a children's routine. Routine establishes so many aspects of healthy living, good habits and good behavior that even the slightest structure is necessary in day-to-day life.

Really, kids need and even desire routine – even if they don’t know it – and there are plenty of ways to get them going by building a schedule that works for the whole family.
There are many positive side effects for establishing strong routines for kids.
Kids don’t have a lot of control in their lives and it can give them a sense of organization, stability and comfort. That, in turn, should help develop better behavior and some sense of personal control – always a challenge, especially with young kids.
Doing things like bathing and brushing teeth as part of morning or nighttime routines can help establish good personal hygiene and health habits. Having built in chore time somewhere in the week or day, having them help pick up at the end of dinner or tidy up the house at the end of a day of playing establishes responsibility and work ethic.

The list can go on regarding how one aspect of routine can affect another and lead to more positives.
Morning Getting up and going can be hard whether young or old, kid or parent, in school or not. Maybe morning is harder on the stay-at-home dad than child or vise versa. No matter how getting started in the morning goes for a family, getting a solid routine established right off the bat means an easier flow to the day.
Sticking to a similar wake-up call could mean all the difference between having a good day and having a bad one. Think about it, even if it’s obvious, if the kids are used to waking up at 7:30 and for some reason rise an hour earlier or later you now need to figure out how to add an hour to the day or squeeze in a day’s worth of routine in 60 less minutes. The tone of the day can be messed up.
The implications are worse if the kids are in school or there is something taking place that morning. Having a solid morning ritual will maintain a good stress level for everyone.
So whatever the process is, getting up, getting dressed, hygiene maintenance then off to the breakfast table, there is only one chance to get off to a good start.

Mealtime When it’s time to eat is a perfect time to establish good habits. Eating habits, specifically. Always eat breakfast, and a good one. Lunch and dinner are more of a given, but set times and structure for kids so there are no surprises and length between eating isn’t so great that hunger takes over the family. That can lead to crabbiness or impulse snacking and dinner wrecking.
Set standards for when snacking takes place and what kinds of foods are eaten. Don’t indulge in food whenever a child wants something. The results should equal good eating and eating habits.
Mealtime is also a good time to instill family into the kids. Always try to find time to sit down together, preferably at a table, to talk and eat. Additionally, have kids help get dinner started, set the table and clean up afterward to plant a bit of responsibility.

Sleep Getting kids to sleep, whether it is for a nap or for the night, is one of the greatest challenges for parents. Those kiddos always think they are missing something if they have to shut their eyes, plus there is so much more fun to be had running around rather than lying down.
Obviously, children who aren’t well rested can throw a wrench in any lifestyle. Sticking to a solid sleep schedule may be one of the most important aspects of routine.
Sticking to the same times and the same aspects will make this so ingrained that less fighting and whining will take place and hopefully better sleep will result.
For bedtime, brushing teeth, going to the bathroom, taking a bath, reading a story and finally lights out can be comforting and rewarding for the kids. They know what the next step is and what the expected end result will be. Stray from whatever ritual you use and getting those lights off and eyes closed becomes more of a challenge.

For younger kids needing naps, timing may be everything. Try for a nap too early and they may fight the entire time and never get to sleep. Go too long and they may be over tired, leading to more restlessness. Little things before a nap may help in the same ways as going down for the night – stories, tucking in, changing diapers, etc.

Some flexibility may be OK around sleep times if special activities or events are going on, but a good sleep routine can keep a family sane.

Play One area for stay-at-home dads and their kids that can, and maybe should, be flexible is fun activities. Changing things up can keep life fresh and interesting.
As long as everyone knows there is activity built in to the day, there will be something looked forward to. No matter how the basic daily structure is set up, there always will be
time for activity. A little planning can go a long way, trying last-second ideas to fill the schedule also can lead to stress.

For older kids with sport practices or extra curricular activities there isn’t much of a choice in having the time set aside. And that requires a whole new level of planning to make sure all the needs of the kids and the rest of the family remain being met.

Morning or afternoon, ahead of naps or after meals, there needs to be time for fun. Everyone needs the release, and it could make things feel a little less structured, too.

Kids and Bedtime Routines

Whether you have an infant, toddler, kindergartner, or preteen, a good bedtime routine can be the difference between good sleep habits and a lot of sleepless nights.
There are dozens of parenting sleep books about kids and sleep problems, from Dr. Ferber's "Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems" book to Elizabeth Pantley's "No-Cry Sleep Solution".
And while any of the books can help you get your baby sleeping better, even though they all use different methods, it is important to notice that most of these parenting experts stress the key of a good bedtime routine for a good night's sleep. In fact, the American Academy of Pediatrics, in their "Guide to Your Child's Sleep" book state that "it's almost impossible to overstress the importance of a calm, orderly bedtime routine."

Bedtime Routines

A bedtime routine includes all of the things that you do with your baby or older child just before and up to the time that you put him to bed, such as taking a bath, a last diaper change, putting on pajamas, saying prayers, and reading a bedtime story, etc.
The goal of a good bedtime routine is for your child to fall asleep on his own, without being rocked, watching TV, or with you lying down next to him. This way, if he does wake up later, he should be able to comfort himself and fall back asleep without needing any extra help. On the other hand, if he associates falling asleep with being rocked, for example, if he does later wake up in the middle of the night, he likely won't be able to go back to sleep unless you rock him back to sleep.

Bedtime Routines Do's and Don'ts

There is no absolute right way to set up a bedtime routine. Some kids like to hear a bedtime story, others may want to talk about their day, and some may just want to say their prayers and go to sleep. As long as your child falls asleep easily and sleep all night, then your bedtime routine is likely working well.
Other things that you should likely do as part of a good bedtime routine can include that you:

• Start early. It is much easier to begin a good bedtime routine when your baby is young than to try and change poor sleep routines when you have a toddler or preschooler who still isn't sleeping well.
• Make your bedtime routine age-appropriate. Your child's bedtime routine will change over time. For example, while it is expected for a newborn or younger infant to fall asleep nursing or drinking a bottle of formula, you can try and start putting your baby down while he is drowsy but still awake once he is four or five months old.
• Keep your bedtime routine fairly short. A good bedtime routine will probably last about 10 to 15 minutes, or a little longer if you include a bath.
• Use a security object as a part of your bedtime routine. A security object, like a stuffed animal or blanket, can be an important part of a good bedtime routine, especially for toddlers and preschoolers. These types of items usually aren't safe in the crib for younger infants though.
• Be consistent in your bedtime routine. Your bedtime routine may change over time, as your child gets older, but it should be fairly consistent from day to day, starting at the same time and going in the same order. For example, a toddler's bedtime routine might start at 8pm and include a bath, putting on pajamas, reading a few bedtime stories, getting in bed and a final goodnight.
• Offer some choices in your bedtime routine. Your child can't choose when to go to bed, but you can let him have some power in his bedtime routine by letting him have a choice over which pajamas to wear and which books to read, etc.
• Understand that a little crying can be okay. Some kids, no matter what you do, will cry for a few minutes as they settle down for sleep or when they wake up in the middle of the night. This can be okay if they quickly settle down and you are comfortable letting them cry for a few minutes. Keep in mind that there is no real 'cry-it-out' method of getting kids to sleep though. Even the Ferber Method doesn't advocate simply letting kids cry all night.
• Use a nightlight. Few kids like to sleep in the dark, which makes a nightlight useful.
• Include dental hygiene in your bedtime routine. Whether you are cleaning your baby's gums or reminding your older child to brush and floss his teeth, proper dental hygiene is a good habit that you can include in your child's bedtime routine each night.
• Do remind your kids to use the bathroom one last time before going to bed. This is especially important for younger kids who still have issues with bedwetting.

Just like there are a lot of right ways to have a good bedtime routine, there are some wrong ways and things you should avoid.

• Don't drag out your bedtime routine. If you are not careful, your child will drag out your bedtime routine much longer with repeated calls for drinks, snacks, or to use the bathroom. Try to stick to your original bedtime though.
• Avoid stimulating activities just before your bedtime routine. Especially if your child has trouble falling asleep, you should usually stop stimulating activities 30 to 60 minutes before bedtime, such as playing video games, watching TV, or talking on the phone.
• Avoid caffeine before bed. Keep in mind that in addition to soda and tea, caffeine can be a hidden ingredient in other foods, including coffee flavored ice cream and chocolate, etc.
• Avoid poor sleep associations. This includes things like rubbing your child's back until he falls asleep, having music playing or keeping the TV on, since if your child learns to associate falling asleep with something like that, he will need help if he later wakes up. And no, simply keeping the TV or music on all night doesn't work. If your child wakes up, he will still cry out for you and need your help to go back to sleep.
• Don't assume that your child will simply outgrow poor sleep habits. Unfortunately, if nothing is done, many children who have sleep problems as infants and toddlers continue to sleep poorly even once they start school. The sooner you fix your child's poor sleep habits, including starting a good bedtime routine, the better.

A Bedtime Routine That Works - Creating a Routine That Helps Your Child Fall Asleep

Lack of sleep can cause a slew of other problems, including poor behavior, an inability to concentrate, and frequent nighttime waking. In order to make sure that your child is getting adequate sleep on a regular basis, you'll need to keep the bedtime routine fairly consistent.

Here is a list of Dos and Don'ts for establishing a bedtime routine that works:

Do:

1. Spend some time unwinding with a quiet activity 30 minutes before starting the bedtime routine.
2. Be consistent. The routine should be the same night-to-night, so that your child learns to anticipate sleep as part of the routine.
3. Include bathtime in your regular routine, as the soothing warmth will help prepare your child's body for rest.
4. Make reading together part of the bedtime routine.
5. Move your child's bedtime up (to an earlier time) if he or she frequently wakes during the night.
6. Leave the room while your child is still awake.
7. Allow soft music or a nightlight.
8. Remain calm when your child calls for you.
9. Reassure your child that you will come back and check on him or her during the night.
10. Always put your infant on his or her back to sleep.
11. Impose reasonable consequences if your child refuses to go to sleep. For example, a favorite toy might go in "Time Out," or your child might lose TV time for continuing to act out at bedtime.

Don't:

1. Make TV part of the bedtime routine.
2. Offer caffeinated sodas with dinner.
3. Allow frequent interruptions to the bedtime routine.
4. Make lying down together or rocking your child to sleep a regular part of the bedtime routine.
5. Use thick blankets, quilts, stuffed animals, or pillows in your infant's crib.
6. Pick your child up if he or she continues to call for your fights going to sleep. Instead, simply reassure him or her that you're nearby.

父母永遠只有一個

媳婦說：
「 煮淡一點妳就嫌沒有味，現在煮鹹一點妳卻說咽不下，
妳究竟想怎麼樣 ？」
母親一見兒子回來，二話不說便把飯菜往咀裡送。
她怒瞪他一眼。
他試了一口，馬上吐出來，
兒子說：「 我不是說過了嗎，媽有病不能吃太鹹！」
「那好！媽是你的，以後由你來煮！」
媳婦怒氣沖沖地回房。

兒子無奈地輕嘆一聲，然後對母親說：
「 媽，別吃了，我去煮個麵給妳。」
「 仔，你是不是有話想跟媽說，是就說好了，別憋在心裡！
「 媽，公司下個月升我職，我會很忙，
至於老婆，她說很想出來工作，所以 ....」
母親馬上意識到兒子的意思：
「 仔，不要送媽去老人院。」
聲音似乎在哀求。
兒子沉默片刻，他是在尋找更好的理由。

「 媽，其實老人院並沒有甚麼不好，
妳知道老婆一但工作，
一定沒有時間好好服侍妳。
老人院有吃有住有人服侍照顧，不是比在家裡好得多嗎？」
「可是，阿財叔他 .....」

洗了澡，草草吃了一碗速食麵，兒子便到書房去。
他茫然地佇立於窗前，有些猶豫不決。
母親年輕便守寡，含辛茹苦將他撫養成人，供他出國讀書。
但她從不用年輕時的犧牲當作要脅他孝順的籌碼，
反而是妻子以婚姻要脅他！
真的要讓母親住老人院嗎？
仔問自己，他有些不忍。

「 可以陪你下半世的人是你老婆，難道是你媽嗎？」

阿財叔的兒子總是這樣提醒他
「 你媽都這麼老了，好命的話可以活多幾年，
為何不趁這幾年好好孝順她呢？
樹欲靜而風不息，子欲養而親不在啊 ！」
親戚總是這樣勸他。
兒子不敢再想下去，深怕自己真的會改變初衷。

夕晚，太陽收斂起灼熱的金光，躲在山後憩息。
一間建在郊外山崗的一座貴族老人院。

是的，錢用得越多，兒子才心安理得。
當兒子領著母親步入大廳時，
嶄新的電視機，42吋的螢幕正播放著一部喜劇，
但觀眾一點笑聲也沒有。

幾個衣著一樣，髮型一樣的老嫗歪歪斜斜地坐在梳化上，
神情呆滯而有一個老人在自言自語，
有個正緩緩彎下腰，想去撿掉在地上的一塊餅乾吃。
兒子知道母親喜歡光亮，
所以為她選了一間陽光充足的房間。
從窗口望出去，樹蔭下，一片芳草如茵。
幾名護士推著坐在輪椅的老者在夕陽下散步，
四周悄然寂靜得令人心酸。
縱是夕陽無限好，畢竟已到了黃昏，他心中低低嘆息。

「 媽，我........我要走了 ！」
母親只能點頭。
他走時，母親頻頻揮手，
她張著沒有牙的嘴，
蒼白乾燥的咀唇在囁嚅著，一副欲語還休的樣子。
兒子這才注意到母親銀灰色的頭髮，
深陷的眼窩以及打著細紋臉。
母親，真的老了！

他霍然記起一則兒時舊事。
那年他才6歲，母親有事回鄉，不便攜他同行，
於是把他寄住在阿財叔家幾天。
母親臨走時，
他驚恐地抱著母親的腿傷心大聲號哭道：
「 媽媽不要丟下我！媽媽不要走！」

最後母親沒有丟下他。
他連忙離開房間，順手把門關上，不敢回頭，
深恐那記憶像鬼魅似地追纏而來。

他回到家，
妻子與岳母正瘋狂的把母親房裡的一切扔個不亦樂乎。
身高3呎的獎杯──
那是他小學作文比賽「我的母親」第1名的勝利品！
華英字典──
那是母親整個月省吃省用所買給他的第一份生日禮物！
還有母親臨睡前要擦的風濕油，
沒有為她擦，帶去老人院又有甚麼意義呢？

「 夠了，別再扔了！」兒子怒吼道。
﹝這麼多垃圾，不把它扔掉，怎麼放得下我的東西﹞。
岳母沒好氣地說。

「 就是嘛！你趕快把你媽那張爛床給抬出去，
我明天要為我媽添張新的 ！」

一堆童年的照片展現在兒子眼前，
那是母親帶他到動物園和遊樂園拍的照片。

「 它們是我媽的財產，一樣也不能丟！」

「 你這算甚態度？對我媽這麼大聲，我要你向我媽道歉！」

「 我娶妳就要愛妳的母親，
為甚麼妳嫁給我就不能愛我的母親？ 」

雨後的黑夜分外冷寂，街道蕭瑟，行人車輛格外稀少。
一輛寶馬在路上飛馳，頻頻闖紅燈，陷黃格，
呼一聲又飛馳而過。
那輛轎車一路奔往山崗上的那間老人院，
停車直奔上樓，推開母親臥房的門。
他幽靈似地站著，母親正撫摸著風濕痛的雙腿低泣。
她見到兒子手中正拿著那瓶風濕油，
顯然感到安慰的說：
「 媽忘了帶，幸好你拿來！ 」
他走到母親身邊，跪了下來。

「 很晚了，媽自己擦可以了，你明天還要上班，回去吧！」

他囁嚅片刻，終於忍不住啜泣道 ：
「媽，對不起，請原諒我！我們回家去吧 ！」

∼∼後語∼∼

隨著自己愈長大，
看著父母親臉龐從年輕變憔悴，
頭髮從烏絲變白髮,動作從迅捷變緩慢，多心疼！

父母親總是將最好、最寶貴的留給我們，
像蠟燭不停的燃燒自己，照亮孩子！
而我呢？
有沒有騰出一個空間給我的父母，
或者只是在當我需要停泊岸時，
才會想起他們……
其實父母親要的真的不多，
只是一句隨意的問候：爸、媽，你們今天好嗎？」
隨意買的宵夜，煮一頓再普通不過的晚餐;，
睡前幫他們蓋蓋被子，
天冷幫他們添衣服、戴手套……
都能讓他們高興溫馨很久。

有時，我常在想：我希望我的子女以後如何對我。
那現在，我有沒有如此對待我的父母？
我相信，人是環環相扣的；
現在，你如何對待你的父母；
以後，你的子女就如何待你。

朋友，人世間最難報的就是父母恩，
願我們都能：以反哺之心奉敬父母，以恩之心孝順父母！

∼共勉之∼
生命不要求我們成為最好的，只要求我們作最大的努力！
老人安養院牆上發現的一篇文章
孩子！當你還很小的時候，
我花了很多時間，教你慢慢用湯匙、用筷子吃東西。
教你繫鞋帶、扣扣子、溜滑梯、教你穿衣服、梳頭髮、擰鼻涕。
這些和你在一起的點點滴滴，是多麼的令我懷念不已。
所以，當我想不起來，接不上話時，
請給我一點時間，等我一下，
讓我再想一想……極可能最後連要說什麼，我也一併忘記。
孩子！
你忘記我們練習了好幾百回，
才學會的第一首娃娃歌嗎？
是否還記得每天總要我絞盡腦汁，
去回答不知道你從哪裡冒出來的嗎？
所以，當我重覆又重覆說著老掉牙的故事，
哼著我孩提時代的兒歌時，體諒我。
讓我繼續沉醉在這些回憶中吧！
切望你，也能陪著我閒話家常吧！
孩子，現在我常忘了扣扣子、繫鞋帶。
吃飯時，會弄髒衣服，梳頭髮時手還會不停的抖，
不要催促我，要對我多一點耐心和溫柔，
只要有你在一起，就會有很多的溫暖湧上心頭。
孩子！如今，我的腳站也站不穩，走也走不動。
所以，請你緊緊的握著我的手，陪著我，慢慢的。
就像當年一樣，我帶著你一步一步地走。
若為人子女也不懂得如何體諒他們，
那他們便只能於痛苦中渡過餘生，黑暗中逝去....

平常心

今早妈妈和我说，过日子要用平常心过，
这样就能过得轻松些，
不要时时执着和固执，
日子就过得开心些。

人，一定是有烦恼的，
人生就是这样，
我们得用智慧去面对。

女佣不回来了

原本今天去接女佣回来的，
作晚受到她的短讯说不回来了，
唉, 还以为终于等到她回来的日子，
就可以再轻松了，现在不回来了，
日子就没过得那么轻松咯。
哈哈，得看着办咯。

Dinner @ TGI Friday

Dinner at TGI Friday @ The Garden with my colleagues.

How to Become a Patient Parent

I am definitely not a patient parent — but it’s a goal of mine everyday, and it’s something I’m dedicated to becoming. Every parent loses his or her patience — it’s a fact of life. There are no perfect angels when it comes to moms and dads — we all get frustrated or angry and lose it from time to time.

But patience can be developed over time — it’s a habit, and like any other habit, it just takes some focus.

List of 10 great tips and methods to help us to become a more patient parent:

1. Count to 10. This one really works. When you feel yourself getting frustrated or angry, stop. Count slowly to 10 (you can do this in your head). When you’re done, most of the initial impulse to yell will go away. Alternatively, if you count out loud to 10, your kids will learn quickly that this is a good sign to run away. :)

2. Deep breaths. This works very well in conjunction with the above tip. Count to 10, and then take three slow, deep breaths. Feel the frustration draining out of you with each breath.

3. Pretend someone’s watching. Pretend you have an audience. You’re less likely to overreact with your child if someone’s there watching your every move.

4. What would my mom do? Using a role model of the most patient people that you know. The best model that I ever think of is my mom. I always think ... “How would my mom handle all of us last time?” And using this role model, I begin to cool down and change my behavior to something more positive.

5. How does this help? When I’m about to say something to my kids, when I can remember, I ask myself, “How does this help my child?” This helps me to re-focus on what’s really important. Yelling or getting angry rarely helps any situation. Must always think of this before yelling or shouting at them. Yelling or shouting is useless and only bring 'side effect' to my kids. My son he learns to yell and shout now. He learns from his mom.

6. Take a break. Often it’s best just to walk away for a few minutes. Take a break from the situation, just for 5-10 minutes, let yourself calm down, plan out your words and actions and solution, and then come back calm as a monk.

7. Teach. This is something that I must learn. I know very well and clear that my kids are just kids — they are not perfect, they do not know how to do things, and they have a lot to learn. I am just like their teacher. I must be patient, and teach them how to do things — even if we have to teach them 10 times before, it might be the 11th time when things click. And we must remember, none of us learn things on the first try either. Find new ways to teach something, and we are more likely to be successful. Think positive.

8. Visualize. This works best if you do it before the frustrating situation comes up. When you’re alone and in a quiet place. Visualize how you want to react the next time your child does something that typically gets you mad. How do you handle the situation? How do you look? What do you say? How does your child react? How does it help your relationship with your child? Think about all these things, visualize the perfect situation, and then try to actually make that happen when the situation actually comes up.

9. Just laugh. Sometimes we need to remind ourselves that no one is perfect, that we should be enjoying this time with our kids, and that life should be fun — and funny. Smile, laugh, be happy. Doesn’t always work, but it’s good to remind yourself of this now and then.

10. Think positive. Must always think that you can be a patient mom. Think positive, and we are more likely to be successful.

Bonus tip: JUST LOVE. Instead of reacting with anger, teach yourself to react with love. Your child spills something or has a messy room or breaks your family heirloom? Yells at you or gets in trouble at school? REACT WITH LOVE. IT'S THE BEST SOLUTION.

庆祝生日

今天儿子在学校庆祝他的生日，
他等这一天等了好久，
之前他一直问我，他几时生日。

他还和我说：妈妈，我要生日，我明天要生日。
听到就好笑，多么可爱啊。
为他准备了一个蛋糕，一些零食给班上的同学们。

那是什么？

这部短片能引人深思，尤其是现代的年轻人对孝道有没有重视？
身为子女者，有没有想过在自己小时候，父母如何疼爱子女？
重视 孝道

孩子把我弄哭了

今晚, 我的孩子把我弄哭了。
当我哭泣时,
我的孩子也哭了。

我把注意力都放在儿子的面上,
我看到到他也流泪,
他的眼泪不停的在流,

我知道他并不是那么的顽皮,
当他看到妈妈哭时, 他也哭,
 他还用手摸我的面, 帮我抹泪。

我好开心, 我的儿子帮我抹眼泪,
好感动噢。

女儿还小, 她只做在我的腿上哭泣,
我问他们要听妈妈的话吗, 女儿第一个说: 要。
她也替我抹泪。

我的儿子每天都给我挑战,
我要怎样才可以打败他呢?
真的要对自己说声恭喜恭喜，
给我遇到这么一个有挑战性的事。

一个办法: 用智慧打败他! 加油!

你長大後，養不養我(來源：孝親佛門)

當我老了，不再是原來的我。
請理解我，對我有一點耐心。

當我把菜湯灑到自己的衣服上時，當我忘記怎樣繫鞋帶時，
請想一想當初我是如何手把手地教你。

當我一遍又一遍地重複你早已聽膩的話語，
請耐心地聽我說，不要打斷我。
你小的時候，我不得不重複那個講過千百遍的故事，直到你進入夢鄉。

當我需要你幫我洗澡時，
請不要責備我。
還記得小時候我千方百計哄你洗澡的情形嗎？

當我對新科技和新事物不知所措時，
請不要嘲笑我。
想一想當初我怎樣耐心地回答你的每一個「為什麼」。

當我由於雙腿疲勞而無法行走時，
請伸出你年輕有力的手攙扶我。
就像你小時候學習走路時，我扶你那樣。

當我忽然忘記我們談話的主題，
請給我一些時間讓我回想。
其實對我來說，談論什麼並不重要，只要你能在一旁聽我說，我就很滿足。

當你看著老去的我，請不要悲傷。
理解我，支持我，就像你剛才開始學習如何生活時我對你那樣。

當初我引導你走上人生路，如今請陪伴我走完最後的路。
給我你的愛和耐心，我會抱以感激的微笑，這微笑中凝結著我對你無限的愛。

When I was old, I wasn't myself before.
Please understand, be more patient.

When I splash soup on collar, When I forgot how to tie my shose,
Please think about how I taught you this when you were a kid.

When I repeat my words again and again you listened many times,
Please listening with your patience, Do not interrupt me.
When you were a small child I must repeat the story thousand of times, until you fall asleep.

When I need your help for shower,
Please do not blame me.
Don't you remember I leave no stone unturned to help you took a bath.

When I perplexed about new technology and fashion stuff,
Please do not laughing me.
Think how patience I was answer your each "why..."

When I tired my legs and can't even walk,
Please give me your young and strong hands.
Just like before when you were learn walk I was your support.

When I suddenly forgot our topic,
Please give me a bit more time let me recall it.
In fact any topic is not important for me, I satisfied just you can listen side of me.

When you saw me getting old, Do not be sad.
Understood me, Support me,
As you just start to learn how to live independent what I helped you.

Originally I introduced life to you.
Now please be a company for me to finish end of my life.

give me your love and patience, I will pay my thanks smile, this smile.
full of my unlimity love for you.

我的鼻子不見了 - 可爱的小胖胖

生病了

我终于生病了.
星期五晚上, 我倒了,
病倒了.发烧了.
很想好好休息,
但知道是不可能的事,
多可悲啊!

老师投诉了

星期一老师打电话给我，她告诉我说，
儿子这两个星期在学校不很听话，
把老师给气坏了，还把他带到校长室，
上课不专心，英语很明显退步了。
我担心的事终于发生了。

那天回家就和家婆家公谈了，
要安排给孩子早吃饭，早睡觉，
把时间给调回去。

昨晚老公教儿子做功课，
很明显他很不专心，把老公给气坏，
儿子在考验他的耐心，
好不容易孩子把功课做完。

今天孩子放学回家就说不要吃饭，
不要喝奶，要睡觉。
吩咐家婆只给他睡一个小时，
家婆弄醒他，他哭闹不肯 。。。
另外一段我听到家公说给他继续睡，
家婆说不能。。。

我相信，这是一个过渡期，
只要家婆家公合作，忍耐下，
很快就能看到效果了，
帮帮忙吧!  感谢了。